http://www.allankelly.com/blog Counsellor Allan Kelly gets to talk instead of listen! Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:57:09 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en As the days draw in... and in... and in... it's very easy to feel down and start feeling negative. That's when NATS can fly in. No not those little flying insects that buzz around and can sting (they're gnats!) but Negative Automatic Thoughts. They can also fly in and buzz around our ... http://www.allankelly.com/blog/negative-thoughts-buzzing-around-your-head-20-questions-that-could-help/ In 1958 Eddie Cochran sang 'there ain't no cure for the Summertime Blues'. His song became a rock 'n' roll anthem about what it's like to be a teenager and has resonated with generations since.  At this time of year post Xmas and New Year many of us face a very different issue, dealing with ... http://www.allankelly.com/blog/the-midwinter-blues/ Did you guess that it was...... relationships? Is that the issue that you struggle with too? Relationships is the issue that people bring into my counselling room day in, day out. And I can hear you asking the question...How come? And it’s a really good question! Years back, not quite in the stone age, people lived in ... http://www.allankelly.com/blog/relationships/ This is a question that prospective clients often think about! It seems like only yesterday since Roger Federer lifted the mens singles cup just down the road at Wimbledon for a record equalling 5th time but that actually happened 10 weeks ago and whatever happened to our Great British Summer? Here in SW20 it really is beginning to feel like ... http://www.allankelly.com/blog/whens-a-good-time-to-make-a-start-on-counselling/